Amanisknownbythecompanyhekeepstheysay.Ifitisso,theneveryoneisboundtohavetheirbaggageoflonelinesswiththemascompanions,lonelinessisnotsomethingthatdoesn'texistatallwithanyhumanbeingonearth.Everyhumanbeingfeelslonelyinhislifeatsomepointorother.It'sbutnaturaltohavesuchfeeling,becausethat'swhatmakesusallhumanandthatiswhyweareaswearenow.IfweHYPERLINK"http://dict.hjenglish.com/w/shed"\t"_blank"shedsomelightonwhywefeelHYPERLINK"http://dict.hjenglish.com/w/aloof"\t"_blank"alooforlonelyattimes,wewouldbeverymuchastonishedorevenprobablysurprisedbytheresults.Weourselvesareresponsibleforourselfdefinedgloominess.Thisisbecauseattimeswereallyfeelthatweareuncaredfororfeelsomeonedoesn'tunderstandus.Sometimesweoveranalyzereallifesituationsandhavethisgrowingsenseofselfpityinsideus.ThisfeelingalwaysgivesusthoughtswhichHYPERLINK"http://dict.hjenglish.com/w/picturise"\t"_blank"picturiseusalwaysreceivingthewrongendofthestickinlife.Thetruthmightnotalwaysbetrueifwetouchourheartandsee.Itsjustthatourexpectationsinlifeandfrompeoplearoundusorcircumstancesthatwearefacing,havegotthebetterofus.ExpectationisthesilentkillerwhichmurdersmillionsofHYPERLINK"http://dict.hjenglish.com/w/mushy"\t"_blank"mushyandtimetestedrelationships.Iftherewouldhavebeennoexpectationsfromanyone,theworldwouldhavebeenamuchbetterplacetobe.Iftherewouldhavebeennoexpectationds,notmanypeoplewouldhavehadanHYPERLINK"http://dict.hjenglish.com/w/aching"\t"_blank"achingheartandalifelonggrouseagainsttherewouldhavebeenbetterhaves.Ifitwouldn'thavebeenforunreasonableexpectationsnotmanycoupleswouldhavedivorcedeachother.有的时候我们过度的分析了真实的情况，这令我们自己产生了自己怜悯自己的感觉。这种感觉经常会给我们错觉，如果我们扪心自问，真相并不总是真的，它们只是我们对身边人和环境过高的期待。期待是一个沉默的杀手，谋杀了无数经过时间考验的人也人之间的关系。如果没有了对任何人的期待，那么这个世界将会并得更好。如果没有期待，就不会有那么多人感到心疼，而对于有些人，一生的埋怨也就不会那么长了。如果没有那些不切实际的期待，也就不会有那么多夫妻离婚了。Howtocomeoutofexpectationsthem?Goodquestion.Theansweriswhenyougivesomething,don'texpectanythinginreturn.Whenourmothergavebirthtous,sheneverexpectedthatwewillgivebirthtoher.Shehasjustfulfilledherd